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Wren is 3 weeks old
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Next nap
Plus · free during early accessNext nap likely 7:40 PM to 7:55 PM
Awake 30m, since 6:25 PM.
Based on Wren's own last week (41 awake stretches).
Tired signs to watch for
Yawning, rubbing eyes or ears, staring off, going quiet, fussing, or turning away from play. Starting the wind-down when these show up often goes more smoothly than waiting for the clock.
Traditional practiceHow sure is this?
Widely practiced and generally harmless, but with little solid evidence behind it.
Awake-time ranges are widely used by parents and sleep consultants, but there's little formal research behind exact numbers. Treat this as a rough guide, follow your baby's cues, and always put them down on their back in a clear crib.
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Wren’s stats
Each bar is real experience toward the next level. Early play awards less than later skills.
Stat breakdown
- FitnessLv 2
33 / 200 XP
- DexterityLv 1
66 / 100 XP
- IntelligenceLv 1
40 / 100 XP
- SocialLv 1
69 / 100 XP
- CreativityLv 1
0 / 100 XP
- Self-careLocked
Creativity has the least experience so far.
Still open today
- Soft fabric play
- Music and singing
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- Soft fabric play
- Music and singing
Logging streak14 days
Kept up by either parent logging anything.
14
days in a row
14
best run
Growth
Add a weight whenever you get one: a checkup, a weight check, or a home scale. Enter pounds and ounces or kilograms; we store one value and show it either way.
Latest
3.71 kg
Oct 9 · +312 g since the one before
About the 41st percentile for age (WHO)
Weight history
3.71 kg+312 g
Oct 9
3.40 kg+255 g
Oct 2
3.15 kg−198 g
Sep 24
3.35 kg
Birth
Most babies lose a little weight in the first days and are back to their birth weight by around day 10 to 14.
Well establishedHow sure is this?
Major medical bodies agree on this. Treat it as standard guidance.
Early weight loss and its recovery by about two weeks is consistent across AAP and NHS guidance. It describes what is typical, not a target your baby has to hit: a baby who is slower to regain may be entirely fine, and that is a call for your clinician.
The line is just the numbers you typed, no percentiles, and no verdict on whether a weight is where it should be. Your pediatrician plots growth properly at checkups and is the person to ask about it.
Memories
Milestones
2 saved so far.
First bath
Sep 27, 2026
First trip outside
Oct 3, 2026
A slow lap of the park. Slept the whole way.
Next up
Next checkup
A check on growth and feeding, and on how you're doing too.
1-month checkup
Due next week
What happens
- Weight, length and head size, plotted on a growth chart
- A full physical exam
- Questions about how your baby moves, looks and responds
- Questions about hearing and vision
- A short questionnaire on how you're feeling, to check for postpartum depression
- Questions about how your family is doing, including your own well-being
Vaccines commonly given
- Hepatitis B (2nd dose, at 1 to 2 months)
- antibody (nirsevimab or clesrovimab), if due for the season
Vaccine schedules vary, and since 2025 the American Academy of Pediatrics and CDC have published different ones. This list follows the AAP schedule and shows what's commonly given, but the exact timing and brands differ between practices. Your pediatrician will confirm what's due at each visit. RSV protection for babies depends on the season and on whether an RSV vaccine was given in pregnancy. If a dose is missed or you're behind, catch-up is possible, and the series doesn't need to start over.
Questions to ask
- Is my baby gaining weight well?
- How much crying is normal, and what helps?
- Does my baby need vitamin D drops?
- How do we keep sleep safe?
- Is what I'm feeling normal, and where can I get support?
Today’s read
A myth, a question and some good news, new each day.
Mythbuster
“Babies with reflux should sleep on their stomachs.”
What’s true
On the back is still the safest position, including for babies who spit up a lot. Stomach sleeping raises the risk of and isn't a treatment for reflux. Raising the head of the crib or using wedges isn't recommended either.
Well establishedHow sure is this correction?
Major medical bodies agree on this. Treat it as standard guidance.
This rating is for the correction above, not the myth.
Question of the day
How much tummy time should we be doing?
The suggests tummy time from the first days home, while your baby is awake and someone is watching: a few minutes at a time, a few times a day, building up to 15 to 30 minutes in total a day by about 7 weeks. Lying tummy-down on your chest counts. It strengthens the neck and shoulders and helps prevent flat spots. If they fuss, try shorter sessions more often. Sleep is always on the back.
Good news
Childhood vaccines have saved an estimated 154 million lives over the past 50 years, 101 million of them babies.
WHO, 2024Trends
Logs
Everyone’s entries, newest first.
- Sleep20mAlex · 6:05 PM
- Feeding16mAlex · 5:37 PM
- Wet diaperSam · 5:15 PM
- Feeding13mSam · 3:31 PM
- Wet diaperAlex · 1:15 PM
- Sleep3h 14mSam · 1:08 PM
- Feeding14mAlex · 12:20 PM
- Skin to skin25mSam · 12:00 PM